As a normal Malaysian, we will finish our degree at the age of 21++. Then, enter Second stage of life- working lifestyle.
I heard some of the voices outside, working life is like wake up, work start, eat, work end, sleep (5 things only), this routine our life until we get the Third stage of our life(marriage). Is it true?
However, i do not experience that yet! I am still am consider as a fresh graduate and in the list of unemployment statistic. Some of my friends has started to work now, and even get higher salary, and some may same as me, also some is already disappear in my life though. Everyone has their own target, their own goal to achieve, it doesn't matter who is stronger than who else, it is all about life.
In Malaysia, we have been trained as a racer by our education since child, we chase good result, we chase No. 1! But what will we get in the result after we finish the study? Nothing~ It is good if you have practice your interested to do that match with your career right now, it is perfect! How about if it is not? Many people lost their way after graduated, they don't not know what to do, included me. They have been chase something that others people chase as well (result), when the race is end, What is the Next? No one know. School teacher told you to get a good result and find a good job and earn money, that is it~ When people lost their way, they don't have direction, what they chase the next will be Money~ Where is the job can offer high pay, i will go for it. And this will even link to the Reality of life. The Reality force us to get more Money. The more Money you have, you can get anythings else- Money Addiction. When people eye stuck with all the Money, they will start to lose their own way, they can't see what really they want, and only Money for priority.
Reality with Money is all faced by most of the people, it consider as Outer part. The most important is back to your Inner part. Inner part is the soul, what are you really like, what is your personality, is short, Do you understand yourself? The biggest mistake as people did is, they chase for nothing is just because they don't understand themselves. They might know well on others, they know all about others thinking, treat them well, but at the end, they lost themselves. Before getting something what you want, you really first need to understand yourself well. Once you understand yourself, you will never easily interrupt by outsider, because you know what you really want, and what you want to achieve which is not same with others. Then only you can set your own goal, go for it, don't care what others said, just do what you want, follow your heart, life is only once, don't regret... you can not responsible to anyone else(not ask you to hurt anyone), but you must responsible to yourself ever, ever, Ever.
Sometime we are just walk to fast over our life, slow down a bit. Be enjoy the scenery around when you pass by. That scenery may be once only in your life, don't miss it, if you miss it once, it may not repeat anymore.
Lastly, follow your heart, go what you wish to do for yourself, no one can give you exact what to do, just because they aren't you. Never have a person in this world can understand more than yourself! Only you to design your destiny. We might fail many time in out life, But we just need Once to hit the Goal to achieve Own Success!~
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